Self-control: How to take control of your own health

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I had always been a cheerful and competent bank clerk. At 26, I was known among my colleagues for my efficiency and friendly demeanor. But beneath my jovial exterior, I harbored a deep insecurity. I’ve always struggled with my weight, and my love for high-calorie foods led me to become obese. I believed this was the reason I was still single, despite my outgoing personality and success at work.

I tried to ignore my weight for years, but the loneliness gnawed at me. I watched as my friends found relationships and settled down, while I remained alone. My self-esteem took a hit every time I saw a couple holding hands or heard about someone else’s engagement. The thought that no one would ever love me because of my size became a constant weight on my mind, heavier than any physical burden I carried.

One day, after a particularly awkward conversation with a colleague who gently suggested I consider my health, I made a decision. I was tired of feeling trapped in my own body, tired of the self-doubt that clouded my mind. I was determined to change my life, starting with my eating habits. But there was a problem—I didn’t know where to begin.

I turned to the internet, scrolling through endless articles and watching videos on healthy eating. The more I read, the more confused I became. One source told me to avoid all carbs, while another insisted that balance was key. Some articles warned against fat, while others claimed it was essential. I found myself overwhelmed by the conflicting information. In my desperation to see results, I began to follow whatever advice seemed the strictest.

I cut out entire food groups, limited my meals to bland salads, and punished myself with rigorous exercise routines that left me exhausted. At work, my once sharp focus began to waver. I found it difficult to concentrate, my energy levels plummeted, and my cheerful demeanor faded. My colleagues noticed the change but didn’t know how to help. My efforts, instead of improving my life, seemed to be making everything worse.

Frustrated and lost, I realized I couldn’t do this alone. I needed proper guidance, not just snippets of advice from the internet. So, I decided to seek professional help. I made an appointment with a nutritionist and joined a local health and wellness group.

The nutritionist helped me understand that healthy eating wasn’t about extreme restrictions but about balance and moderation. She taught me how to create a meal plan that suited my needs, one that included a variety of foods that would nourish my body without leaving me feeling deprived. The wellness group provided me with support and encouragement, reminding me that change was a gradual process and that I didn’t have to be perfect.

With time, I began to feel the difference. My energy levels improved, and I regained my focus at work. I still enjoyed the occasional high-calorie treat, but now I knew how to balance it with healthier choices. As my confidence grew, so did my social life. I realized that my worth wasn’t defined by my weight, but by the person I was inside.

My journey wasn’t easy, but it taught me the importance of self-care and the value of seeking help when needed. I learned that change was possible, not through extreme measures, but through understanding, patience, and self-compassion. And with this newfound knowledge, I finally began to feel comfortable in my own skin, ready to face the world with confidence.